This post was contributed by my friend Ross Goldberg…
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I got it all figured out.
I discovered the secret to making it all make sense.
(Not sure if this will have the same impact on you that it had on me, but it should help you)
The “secret” is acceptance.
When my marriage was dissolving, I realized that I’d never truly accepted my ex.
I was always trying to change something or help her fix herself.
If I’d simply accepted her as she was, things may have been different.
In current and future intimate relationships, I will focus all of my energy on acceptance.
I will not look for broken things to fix or attempt to change her in any way, shape, or form.
It goes beyond relationships though.
I accept me as I am. I’m flawed and make mistakes. I have taken a real close look at myself and have found the flaws I can fix and the ones that I can’t. I’ve accepted what I need to do to improve areas where I’m not where I want to be and I am fine with the things I can’t change.
I accept my kids. They’re incredible in so many ways, but nobody’s perfect. Without trying to change them, I do my best to help them through the issues they want to fix. I don’t make those decisions for them anymore.
Professionally, I accept that I can’t do it all. Initially, in business, I had the silly idea that I was alone. Over time, I’ve repeatedly fallen into thinking I had to do it all myself. That was foolish. I have a great group of business friends and there is nothing wrong with leaning on them. In fact, they get upset with me if I don’t…
Try to take on mindful acceptance and see what changes for you and those you care about.
Do you have something similar? An epiphany that changed how you viewed the world?
If so, leave it below as a comment and let’s see how many people we can help today.
Ross Goldberg
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