C’mon, I know you’ve asked your guy friends this question after a particular interaction with a woman went straight into the Mysterious and Unexplained Zone.
She walked off and you were stuck scratching your head and saying “What just happened?”
Then you and your friends speculated over beers whether women are (admittedly sexy) aliens from another planet, sent to make you painfully horny and also screw up your brain.
So if you aren’t currently in the tractor beam of a woman who absolutely adores you, do you know what it is in a man that makes a woman incredibly happy to be with him?
Women want to be listened to.
We know we’re complicated and don’t always make sense, but we still want to be heard and understood.
So a man who says the REAL Three Magic Words: “Tell me more…” is the guy we would do nearly anything for.
Hey, I bet you just got some ideas… Yep, we might do them, too. Use your Three Magic Words, dude, and become a rockstar to your woman.
(We hope you’ll use the OTHER Three Magic Words, too.)
Don’t ask a woman whether she “would like help with” something; instead, actively look for ways to make a woman feel taken care of.
Here’s why women like to feel protected: It’s how we’re wired.
We’re not wimpy, or incapable, or weak. Our bodies, emotions, and spirits are strong, but it’s still not a world that accepts us for the amazing creatures we are. So when we have a powerful, reliable partner who makes us feel safe and protected, it’s like suddenly being part of a superhero TEAM.
Now, don’t misunderstand what we mean by “a partner who makes us feel safe. Being PHYSICALLY protected has little to do with how strong a man is, but it has EVERYTHING to do with how a man USES his strength. It’s less about fending off the a-hole in the club (although you should absolutely do that) and more about not taking her to places filled with drunken idiots.
Here are a few things you can do routinely to make the woman you’re dating feel protected:
This doesn’t mean grope. In fact, you get triple bonus points and an extra play if you can do it without grabbing or leering at all.
What you’re doing here is treating her with the respectful attention any amazing, sexy, and confident woman desires and deserves.
You’ve making her feel like the incredible woman she is.
Boys are notoriously unreliable. A woman wants someone whose words match up with his deeds. That means she can trust you, and that feels amazingly good.
Boys tend to be selfish; a woman wants a man who puts her high in his list of priorities, and does things in her best interest – even if it doesn’t “get” him anything. (But believe me, it will “get” you quite a lot.)
Boys bail out at the first sign of trouble. A woman wants a man who will stick with her and help to work problems out as they arise.
I think you’re getting the picture… Every fabulous woman wants a man who can do these things with style and power.
Are you the kind of man she’s dreaming of?
Leave me a comment below and let me know what you think…