What do the successful people all have in common when it comes to getting back together?
I’ve worked with a LOT of people over the years and here’s what I’ve noticed.
1.) They are persistent and don’t give up when they meet a challenge.
Going through a breakup is tough. It can be one of the most challenging things people deal with in life. But people who get their ex back, don’t shy away from a challenge. They put in the hard work because they know it’s worth it.
2.) They take responsibility for their own emotions.
It’s easy to blame your circumstances or someone else, but at the end of the day, people who get their ex back know that they are ultimately responsible for their own wellbeing.
3.) They focus on progress, not perfection.
Maybe your ex didn’t ask to get back together right away… But maybe they’re talking to you now. Maybe they’re flirting with you now. Maybe they’re calling or texting you now.
Don’t get so caught up in the fact that you haven’t reached your goal that you ignore the progress you’ve already made.
4.) They don’t fool themselves.
When it comes to getting your ex back, you can be the easiest person to fool. You can easily talk yourself into thinking that an act of desperation or a “grand romantic gesture” will save your relationship.
Successful people don’t kid themselves. They stay grounded in reality and know when they’re fooling themselves into doing something that won’t help.
5.) They can really “get” their ex and understand them.
If you can really “get” your ex on an emotional level to the point that they feel seen and understood by you… Well, that’s honestly half the battle right there. In order to do this, you have to take them off the pedestal though…
6.) They are adaptable and open to trying new things.
People who are successful at getting their ex back will try different things until they find the approach that works to get them the results they want.
They’ll stay open minded to everything but the most “crazy” ideas, and they’ll try and try until they find what works.
7.) They know when it’s time to act.
They know when it’s time to wait and when it’s time to act. Being able to control your instincts is critical. Act too late and you may have missed your window of opportunity.
If you want to learn how to be successful and implement these habits in to your approach, I’d like to help.
And for that, you can sign up for my private coaching program.
My private coaching is based on what successful people I’ve worked with have done to get their ex back.
…Not theory or some BS “psychological junk” that doesn’t work.
And if you want what works, you know what to do.
PS: If you want to get my personal help with your unique situation, send us an email to see when my next available time is for a private one-on-one consultation.
The best email to reach us is: help@thebreakupdoctor.com
If you’re curious to learn more about how I work, and what it would look like to work with me in private, you can check out this page on my website to get some more information on how it works:
www.TheBreakupDoctor.com/work-with-me/