People often assume that arguments are a sign of things coming to an end.
Let’s imagine for a second that you’re with your partner and the two of you start arguing.
Suddenly, there’s an emotion that comes up saying, “I need to win this argument”
This might be caused by pride, stubbornness and insecurity.
This is The #1 Mistake That Most People Make in an Argument!
They just go on complete auto-pilot, tirelessly fighting to prove their point.
Trust me, I’ve been guilty of this myself (which is why I know this topic so well!)
However, this is a very poor use of your time (and quite frankly, a waste of your energy)
Not only that, but it’s also a big strain on your relationship.
I want to share something that can help you approach things from a more “mature” placeHere’s the critical distinction you need to understand:
There’s a difference between winning in an argument… and winning in a relationship.
I want to make sure that you win in the relationship.
The argument is just a battle; the relationship is the war.
If I can share any piece of advice with you on relationship, it would be this:
Pick your battles!
You can’t win every fight and you certainly can’t fight over every little thing that comes up.
That’s just a recipe for torture.
Plus, some things are just not worth fighting over.
Wisdom comes from knowing which things to fight about and which things to let go.
In other words, it all comes down to choosing your battles wisely.
Give up the need to “win” and choose wisely.
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